I would love to hear any advice on how to find a suitable husband/wife in these times. I know you could go to the masjid or Islamic center, on-line personals, etc.....but as we know there are so many people who do not understand Islam and sooooo many people looking for immigration papers(this is from personal experience in the on-line personals and my ex-husband). Please know this IS NOT a personal ad I am posting , lol :D . i am just looking for advice on finding a suitable mate from my respected brothers and sisters who have found one for themselves. It seems like an impossible endeavor for a shy person who is way too trusting of people(I like to see the good in people rather than the bad) and also for someone who is not an N2I. :D I hope this topic gets posted and is not inappropriate, I'd just love to hear any advice and thoughts.
Sister Mehgan(who is freezing in Minnesota at -20 degrees below zero! and at work at 415am)